2017 Colfax Marathon

2017 Colfax Marathon
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        May 20-21, 2017 in City Park

2017 Colfax Marathon

Thanks for supporting The Children’s Treehouse Foundation by running in The Colfax Marathon.  This is the third year we have had teams run in The Colfax Marathon and our teams get bigger every year!

This year more than 1560 children received the emotional support and coping skills they needed when they learned that their parent or grandparent was diagnosed with cancer.  Because of our runners, more and more hospitals are offering the CLIMB® (Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery) Program to their cancer patients with children.

5k-walkersThe race is May 20-21, 2017 in City Park.  Look for us in the Charity Village during and after the race. All runners & walkers can join us for a Celebration Party on Sunday, May 21st to thank everyone who supported us.

This year we are asking runners to set a goal of raising $100 each for The Children’s Treehouse Foundation.

  • You can ask your colleagues at work to sponsor you.
  • Challenge your friends to give up their specialty coffee for a week and donate it to your effort. Then have them post a picture of their pledge to support you.
  • Find “virtual training partners” who will pay you $5 for each week you reach your training goals (running 3 miles a day  4 times a week, for example).  Ask them to “train” with you for 3 weeks or 5 weeks or 10 weeks.  At the end of each week, let your “training partners” know you hit your training goal.

To make your donation just click on the link below. It will take you to our payment page.  Look for “Other PayPal Payments”, click the Pay Now button and enter the amount you are donating.

http://childrenstreehousefdn.org/?s=other+payments

Thanks for your generosity and for your efforts on behalf of children who have a parent with cancer.  While you are running in the race, think of all the kids who,because of you,will get the support and coping skills they need to face the devastating news that mom or dad has cancer.

“Without CLIMB® Cierra would have had difficulty at school or with all of these emotions. I’m recovering, she is recovering; she’s a survivor, I’m a survivor.” [CLIMB® parent]

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CLIMB Supports Kids

“Health & Healing”
The Saint Alphonsus Cancer Center, http://www.saintalphonsus.org

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Saint-AlphonsusTHE SAINT ALPHONSUS Cancer Care Center is pleased to announce the launch of CLIMB (Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery), a support and education program designed for children who have parents or grandparents with cancer. At Saint Alphonsus, we know that cancer affectsnot only the individual, but the entire family. Children who have a loved one with cancer may experience changes in their daily routines and may feel confused, fearful, sad or angry about the illlness of a parent or grandparent.

The six-session CLIMB program, which is offered free to area children, is based on a nationally recognized model developed by the Children’s Treehouse Foundation, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to increasing emotional support for children of adults with cancer.

If you are interested in supporting our effort to help children and families affected by cancer, or know of a family who would benefit from the program, please contact Lori Watts, Saint Alphonsus oncology social worker, at 367-7785. Volunterrs and donations (cash or in-kind to help with costs of food and activity/art materials)will help us continue to offer the CLIMB program to families in the future.

What Professionals Say About CLIMB and The Children’s Treehouse Foundation

With the CLIMB® program now being provided at 91 cancer centers in 31 states in the USA and seven foreign countries, here’s what professionals say about the program and The Children’s Treehouse Foundation:

“The Children’s Treehouse Foundation’s has been an invaluable tool for the oncology patients, children, and staff at MD Anderson throughout the past eight years.  CLIMB not only benefits the professionals who receive training by providing practical tools to implement the program, it also provides an immeasurable experience and crucial support to the families who participate.  Over the years, we have assisted more than 150 children and their parents, and the coping support they receive through the program is priceless.”

—Marisa B. Nowitz, MSW, LCSW, Social Work Counselor
The University of Texas, MD Anderson Cancer Center, Houston, TX.


“At Cancer Treatment Centers of America, we are completely focused on Patient Empowered Care, which means that we put the patient at the center of everything we do. I’m a huge supporter of CLIMB, as it allows me as a nurse to empower not only the patient, but the entire family. Patients frequently ask me, “How do I explain my cancer to my kids?” CLIMB provides me with an answer to that pivotal question and allows me to offer support to our patients and their families, including more than 100 kids, during their journey.”

—Lindsay Rehm, RN, OCN, Education Specialist,
Cancer Treatment Centers of America® ,Tulsa, OK.


“At Marshfield Clinic Cancer Center in Eau Claire, WI, we have offered the CLIMB program to our patients and their families for six years and have graduated more than 125 children! It has been an honor and a joy to facilitate the program. We also provide the program at our Rice  Lake center. Over and over again, the parents have expressed how much it has helped their children cope and have a better understanding of cancer. This, in turn, has provided comfort to the parents and the help that they were looking for.”

—Nan Bethmann, RN/OCN, Survivorship Coordinator, and
Marcy Elwood, MSW, Oncology Social Worker, Marshfield Clinics, Eau Claire, WI


“We absolutely love the CLIMB program and all 10 kids are coming. This is the most rewarding program I have ever done in my career!”

— Blair Edgar, LCSW, Oncology Social Worker,
Sacred Heart Cancer Center, Pensacola, FL

CLIMB Program Helps Kids Express Emotions

By Rachel Brougham, Petoskey News-Review, MI
Friday – December 16, 2011

petoskey121611Martha Johnson, 11, and her brother, Kevin, 9, sit at a table, surrounded by craft supplies. The two make masks, decorate boxes, and create drawings that display a range of their emotions — angry, sad, confused, even happy. The projects help the Harbor Springs siblings deal with a difficult subject — their mother’s battle with cancer.

Lenora Johnston was diagnosed with lung cancer in October 2010. To help her children better understand the disease and the variety of emotions that can come along with it, Lenora and her husband, Kevin, enrolled their children in the CLIMB program.

CLIMB, which stands for Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery, is a free six-week program offered by Northern Michigan Regional Health System that provides emotional support to children ages 5 through 12, who have a parent or other loved one touched by cancer. “The goal is to help children identify and express the complex feelings they may experience during this difficult time,” said Amy L. Juneau, an oncology social worker at Northern Michigan Regional Hospital. “The program allows children to participate, and offers them a place that is safe to talk about their feelings and learn they are not alone.”

Each session, children will talk about a different feeling and do a craft project that serves as a vehicle for that emotion. Topics include happiness, confusion, sadness, fear, anger and communication. “I can put this mask over my face when I get sad,” Kevin said. “I roll this box like dice,” Martha added, as she shows off a paper box she made. “I wrote ways to deal with being angry and any time I feel angry I can roll it and read what I wrote and it helps.” Kevin made what he calls a “destruction box.” “See, the scene is kind of destructive,” he explained. “I decorated it that way because I try to explode the cancer out of my mom’s lungs.”

The siblings added they use the decorated boxes when they feel scared or angry — putting those types of thoughts out of their mind until they are ready to address them. “At the beginning the kids weren’t sure about the program, but after the first night they were so excited,” Lenora said. “It really has made it easier.” In addition to learning about their emotions, Martha and Kevin also learned they are not alone. They met other area children their age who are also struggling with a loved one’s battle with cancer.

“You know cancer is a bad thing, but you don’t know how bad until it happens to your family,” Martha said. “But now I feel stronger and less afraid.” “It has helped us as a family and made it easier to talk about and deal with the issues involved,” Lenora added. “We still have bad days, but we have good days, too. There are ups and downs, but we’re able to better communicate now. We learned it is OK to cry and it’s OK to feel happy.”

The CLIMB program will take place from 5:30-7 p.m. on Mondays, Jan. 9, 16, 23, 30, and Feb. 6 and 13, at the Community Health Education Center building located across the parking lot from the main entrance to Northern Michigan Regional Hospital in Petoskey. CLIMB was developed by The Children’s Treehouse Foundation, a nonprofit foundation dedicated to the emotional support of children who have parents or grandparents with cancer. The service is free and is funded by Northern Michigan Regional Health System Foundation. For more information or to enroll a child in the program, contact Amy Juneau at (231) 487-4015.

When Mom Has Cancer

By Interviewed by Midweek Staff
Wednesday – December 31, 2008

 
Dr. Diane Thompson Queen’s Medical Center Women’s Center medical director and Cancer Center director
Dr. Diane Thompson
Queen’s Medical Center Women’s Center medical director and Cancer Center director

 

 

Where did you receive your schooling and training?
I did my medical school training in Ohio at Wright State University and I completed my psychiatry residency at the University of Pittsburgh, where I did special training in women’s health and psychiatric oncology. After my residency, my husband and I moved here to Hawaii.

How long have you been practicing?
10 years.

What exactly is a psychiatric oncologist?
I’m a psychiatrist who specializes in dealing with cancer patients. It’s a unique specialty that is getting more recognition as we begin to focus on the overall quality of life of cancer patients. Psychiatric oncology is very different from general psychiatry. For the most part, these are patients who have never had any kind of psychiatric illness before. These are patients who are specifically dealing with changes in mood associated with their cancer diagnosis and the treatment.

What is a typical work week like for you?
My typical work week is divided between the Women’s Center and the Cancer Center. My job with cancer patients is to make sure that there are programs to support the cancer patients. One closest to my heart is the CLIMB program. This is a program for children whose parents have cancer. We also offer many other support groups and community education programs through the cancer center.

Dr. Thompson talks with a parent
Dr. Thompson talks with a parent

Can you talk in detail about what the CLIMB program offers?
It’s a national program (founded by The Children’s Treehouse Foundation), and CLIMB® stands for Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery. It is a four- to six-week support program where children meet for one evening each week. They come in with their parents. The children and their parents have a light dinner together, and after that the children leave the parents and begin the program. We give them a tour of different parts of the hospital so they can see what the chemotherapy and radiation oncology departments look like. It takes a lot of the scariness out of the equation, because their imagination of where Mom and Dad are going is often different from the reality. Then on different nights we do different types of art therapy and discuss emotions that they are experiencing. At the end of the evening, the parent and the child are able to talk about what the child did. Hopefully that will really open up the communication and they’ll just begin talking more – that’s the real goal of the program.

Are the art activities designed for each specific age group, or do all the children do the same activity?
The program is open to children ages 5-18, and the general activities are applicable to the full age range. But certainly the discussion varies. For example, the younger children might draw a Mardi Gras mask with an expression on it, which is the expression or emotion they felt when their parent was first diagnosed. It’s amazing the different emotions that children have. Teenagers might also draw something, but their picture of how they felt may be very different or more abstract. Just seeing that there are others their age going through this can be very therapeutic for them.

What are the biggest differences in working with children versus working with adults?
When we work with children, we really do work with the whole family, because when parents are faced with cancer, children are affected. It’s important that the children and the parents are on the same page, and that’s often not the case. One of the most-common questions I’ve been asked over the years is, ‘How do I talk to my children about my diagnosis?’ Or, ‘Do I tell my child that my husband has stage 4 colon cancer?’People often need help just figuring out how to process the diagnosis themselves. When children are involved, there are additional questions like, ‘How do I put it in words that my child can understand?

Is there ever a clear-cut answer to those questions, or does it vary depending on the case and the age of the child?
Children are perceptive, they know something is wrong, so hiding it can often make things worse because children tend to imagine the worst scenario.Their ideas of what happens when Mom or Dad gets chemotherapy or radiation may be very different from the reality.

What are the most-common questions you are asked by children whose parents have been diagnosed with cancer?
It can be just about any question from, ‘What is going to happen to my mom?’to ‘Is my mom’s hair ever going to grow back?’And you may wonder, why didn’t that child just ask Mom? Again, children are perceptive and they may sense that Mom may get upset or cry, and children try to avoid that. That is why the CLIMB program is so helpful, it promotes communication.

What advice do you give to parents who have infants, where they aren’t able to tell them what’s going on, especially in a terminal cancer case?
Regardless of the child’s age, this is a highly emotional issue. With the support of our multi-disciplinary team, including the social worker and psychiatrist in the cancer center, we can help patients as they face these challenges. We might ask them about information they would like to share with their child in the future, or suggest taking some time to write some stories and things that the child can look at in different times in their lives. One very special patient came to me at a point where his cancer had progressed to an end stage. He had been a really active, responsible man, and he felt awful because all of a sudden everyone had to take care of him. He felt like he was not contributing. He said, ‘I feel totally helpless, all I do is sit all day in this wheelchair.’I asked him if he has breakfast with his girls. And he said yes. Then I asked him, ‘Do you ever tell them they look pretty as they leave for school or tell them you are proud when they show you their schoolwork?’ And again he said yes. Then I told him, ‘That’s what they’re going to remember for the rest of their lives. That self-esteem that you’re giving to them now is an incredible gift, so you really are an important part of the family right now. No matter what age that the kids are, there are things we can do to help the parents and the children.

Is there a particular age that the kids take it the hardest?
It’s hard at all ages. Generally at around age 5 children really start to become aware of their parents and the fact that they can get sick. As children mature, the emotions can become more complex.

Helping Kids CLIMB Through Tough Times

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03/07/2006
By DAVID SCALES , Middletown Press Correspondent

MarliRobleePhotoDURHAM — Marli Roblee has to wake up a little earlier than most to commute to her job at Aetna. Her first stop is the Middlesex Hospital Cancer Center for radiation treatment to prevent her breast cancer from returning. After her diagnosis in 2003, she was unsure how much to tell her 9-year-old son Jeffrey, but a solution appeared when Roblee hosted a field trip and learned of a new outpatient program, Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery, at the Middlesex Hospital Cancer Center, 536 Saybrook Road in Middletown.

The free, six-week program is designed to help children of parents or grandparents with cancer deal with the emotional stress the disease can cause. Parent orientation begins at the first meeting with subsequent meetings targeted toward the children. After dinner, an hour and a half of discussing a feeling they call “the emotion of the week” begins to help them understand their feelings.

“It’s a learning experience for the child,” Roblee said. “It’s learning in the sense that it takes away the fear of the unknown. We can handle anything if we know about it,”

By using arts and crafts, the kids learn how to calm their anxiety about a family member’s illness. One exercise is to make a paper box, which is called a “strongbox.” On the box are pictures of things the children make to help them feel better, such as sports, music, friends, etc. After it’s finished, they put inside that they put little slips of paper inside with their worries written on it. The idea behind the box is the worry slips deposited inside and the positive pictures on the outside help children literally place their fear in a box of their own strength.

“Jeffrey put in a couple of worry slips like ‘I’m afraid my mom and dad are going to die,'” Roblee said. “He had my husband and I fill out worry slips, and once you put the worry slip in the box, they’re not weighing on your mind. They’re not weighing on you.”

Roblee discovered a lump on her breast. Thinking it was a cyst, a biopsy was done. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in December 2003, and it was confirmed as malignant in January 2004.

Roblee had many questions. “How do I tell my son? How can I keep him from being afraid? I don’t want to tell him too much, but how much is enough,” Roblee said. “That’s where CLIMB is fantastic!”

The program doesn’t stop with arts and crafts; kids are also familiarized with the equipment used to treat cancer. Jeffrey was shown the room where his mother undergoes radiation treatments and was encouraged by the new weapons in the anti-cancer arsenal.

“He’s asking me questions when he has concerns and it’s not just this glassy-eyed look,” Roblee said. “Now he understands more and we can talk about it and I’m able to reassure him that everything’s going to be fine.”

When not in class at John Lyman Middle School in Middlefield, exercising his love of math, Jeffrey lends a hand at home.

“I’ve been helping her in the house and I’ve been getting things she shouldn’t be getting up for,” Jeffrey said. “I lift things like laundry baskets. It’s tough to know that my mom had cancer and now we’re getting through it and it’s all better.”

Roblee said because of CLIMB, the lines of communication between her and Jeffrey are open wider than before. Jeffrey has begun to teach his mother how to snowboard. He also said she does pretty well on powdery snow, but tends to wipe out on icy slopes.

Wendy Peterson, is an advanced practice registered nurse, specializing in psychiatry and psycho-oncology, who runs the program. She said the goal is to help children find ways to cope with strong feelings associated with having a sick family member. Parents are also given support to help speak with their children if fears and questions arise.

“When somebody has cancer, people normally get upset,” Peterson said. “It’s normal for a family’s life to be disrupted, it’s normal for children to have feelings, and it’s necessary for children to express how they feel and have age-appropriate information.”

Anne Campbell-Maxwell, administrative director for the cancer center, discovered The Children’s Treehouse Foundation, a nonprofit organization in Denver, Colo. Basing it on their model, CLIMB has gained some national attention. She recently returned from a national psycho-oncology meeting where the CLIMB program was introduced to a national audience with The Children’s Treehouse Foundation founder, Peter van Dernoot.

The six-week pilot program finished in December, and another is beginning, and hopes are high for a continuation. Jeffrey and Marli said they would both love to come back.

Peterson remains hopeful that the program will not only be able to continue, but expand. The group will have a reunion in April.

“We’re really trying to increase awareness so that more children can be referred to the program,” Peterson said.

“Our ultimate goal is to increase the participation of the children and we’re also developing a concurrent parent program.

“The parent program will be focused on giving parents information about what is age-appropriate information to give children because children have different cognitive abilities depending upon their age.”

Roblee hopes to keep hitting the slopes and one day see Jeffery get his license, go to his prom, and one day rock her grandchildren. She is currently undergoing reconstructive surgery.

 

Lifeline: Help With a Tough Conversation

TheStarLedger

Lifeline: Help with a tough conversation
Sunday, October 29, 2006

If you’re a parent who’s been diagnosed with cancer, one of the toughest things you’ll face is figuring out how to help your kids cope with your unsettling news.

The first thing you should NOT do is rush straight home and blurt it all out. Instead, let a few days or a week pass before you have your sit-down talk.

“This gives you time to think through what you’re going to say to your children, to anticipate their questions and how you might answer them,” said author Peter van Dernoot, whose “Helping Your Children Cope with Your Cancer: A Guide for Parents and Families, Second Edition” (Hatherleigh Press, $15.95) was just released to coincide with October’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

Control is key.

Most importantly, this self-imposed grace period will allow you to get your emotions under control so that you can talk to your children in well-modulated tones and without breaking down. “If Mom says, ‘I’m going to be okay and we’re going to fight this,’ but she’s wringing her hands and crying, it’s a mixed message,” van Dernoot said.

Be ready in case your child asks, “Are you going to die?”

Be honest.

You need to be honest and try to focus on the positive as much as possible. “If you say, ‘I’m not going to die,’ and, unfortunately, a couple of years later, the parent does die, the surviving parent will be reminded by the child, ‘You lied to me,'” said van Dernoot, whose late wife was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer at 45, when the couple’s children were 11 and 15.

Try van Dernoot’s suggested approach with your kids: “We’re going to be talking to the very best doctors and oncologists we can find and we’ll do everything we can to try to beat this cancer. Survival rates are extraordinarily high, now, because of new medications and treatments.”

Don’t forget this part: “We will be very honest with you and we will talk to you. As we know new things, we’ll let you know, also.”

— Meg Nugent